Lesbian dating attraction
This creates a messy area, where language seems to fail us.A woman attracted to exclusively women is a lesbian; what is a non-binary person attracted exclusively to women (or men) called?We should make a mess of language – it’s all arbitrary, after all. As someone who presents as female and is often treated as a cisgender woman, I often worry that I am “tricking” people into being attracted to me when I don’t immediately reveal my gender.Too often, I have to give Trans 101 to a stranger – or worse, to someone who I’ve known for a while and finally come out to.
These questions are too large for one conversation to ever answer (if they can be answered), and right now I’m not trying to.I told her I understood if she wasn’t comfortable dating someone who was non-binary, and I wouldn’t hold it against her.I was surprised to find that she not only already knew what non-binary genders are, she was totally cool with it too.Then, it asks if you want to be “included in search results for men or for women?” This is the online dating version of, “What are you really?
I’m attracted to men, but I simply will not deal with being called a “special snowflake” by a man who includes “oxygen” as one of his six things he can’t live without. , you are hypothetically asking, now that I’ve shot down so much. Sometimes, a friend sets you up, and they explain the “gender thing” beforehand.