Dating love in japan
Like many societies, marriage in Japan was arranged for much of its history.
The purpose of marriage was the continuation the family line.
The Western ideas of virginity in relationship to marriage – that is, a woman should remain virgin for her husband – didn’t appear until the 19th century (Mc Lelland, 2010).
This is why PDA (public displays of affection) are taboo.
During the Tokugawa Period, both men and women could be considered adulterers. Punishment could be everything from a fine to death (Stanely, A, 2007). Give Me One Good Reason to Marry a Japanese Man: Japanese Women Debating Ideal Lifestyles. doi:10.1080/00497870490444947Kirai: A Geek In Japan (2007).
Children are exclusively associated with marriage in Japan. As many know, Japan’s population is on the decline. Yes, Japanese women are interested in foreign boyfriends.
Something about modern society has made it more difficult (or perhaps simply made that difficulty more visible) for two people to make that connection. International Journal of Sociology of the Family, Vol.
The physical part of this connection is important, but it can be overemphasized.
Men are encouraged by the corporate world to be subtle, tactful, and highly considerate of the well being of others. This is one of the differences to consider with Japanese dating rituals. The approval of friends when dating is often important (Back to Japan, 2011). They are only feeling each other out – rather than feeling each other the next step for people who are into each other. However, in Japan, this is the initiating confession for dating. A Comparative Study of Marital Dissolution in East Asian Societies: Gender Attitudes and Social Expectations towards Marriage in Taiwan, Korea and Japan.